Now for Marriage - Conditions Apply

There was a time not far back when people used to feel institution of marriage as some thing celestial and tying knots a heavenly bond.  
No more now, as more and more girls are putting forth written or unwritten clauses before taking final plunge. These conditions could range from emotional one such as :

•  I should be allowed to to stay in touch with my parents
• I want my spouse to treat my parent well
• I should be allowed to continue in touch with my old friends
• Won't change her surname.
• In laws should not pressurrise to have children
• Don't want to compromise carrer
• would prefer to live separately with husband 
• would like to share equal financial responsibility
• want some one who is willing to accept past relationship

And to others defining the way each persons chooses to eat, dress or even practise religion.

This shows the progressive mindset of new age woman who wishes to be respected for having a strong personality. This new breed takes her independence and her life choices seriously.This also shows  that the modern Indian woman knows her mind, has her own beliefs and principles and wants them to be respected.

These facts came to light when online matrimonial site shadi.com recently conducted a survey to understand mindset of  young people. In fact similar survey was  conducted by equally strong another matrimonial site  bharatmatrimony.com.

Experts after going through the results  of  these surveys feel that it is an indication of the changing attitude of woman in the country as far as marriage is concerned.

It is also true that in the past women have been exploited tremendously. Any this changing mindset is nothing but a result of new found social, educational and economic liberation.

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